As a disciple maker, one of the most challenging situations you may encounter is when someone you are trying to disciple does not want to become a disciple according to the Bible. This can be frustrating and discouraging, but it is important to remember that we cannot force anyone to become a disciple. Our role as disciple makers is to share the truth of the Gospel with others and encourage them to follow Jesus. Here are a few things to keep in mind when faced with this situation:

  1. Respect their decision: It is important to respect the decision of the person you are trying to disciple. God has given us free will, and we cannot force anyone to follow Jesus. We should continue to pray for them and be available to answer any questions they may have, but ultimately it is their decision to make.
  2. Continue to show them love: Even if someone does not want to become a disciple, we should continue to show them love and kindness. Jesus taught us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us, so we should certainly show love to those who simply do not share our beliefs. By continuing to love them, we may be planting seeds that will eventually lead to their salvation.
  3. Keep living and sharing the Gospel: Just because someone does not want to become a disciple right now does not mean they will never be interested. Keep sharing the Gospel with them and living out your faith in front of them. You never know when God may use your words or actions to draw them closer to Him.
  4. Be patient: Discipleship is a journey, and everyone moves at their own pace. Some people may take longer to come to faith than others, and that is okay. We should be patient and trust that God is working in their lives, even if we cannot see it.
  5. Keep praying for them. Galatians 4:19 says My little children, of whom I travail in birth again until Christ be formed in you,

When someone does not want to become a disciple according to the Bible, it can be challenging for a disciple maker. However, by respecting their decision, continuing to show them love, sharing the Gospel, and being patient, we can trust that God is at work in their lives. Remember, our role as disciple makers is to point people towards Jesus, but it is ultimately up to them to make the decision to follow Him.